Church women’s retreats offer one of the best opportunities of the church for women to step away from their daily responsibilities, rest and connect with other women in the church and spend some concentrated time learning more about the Lord. While retreats require a lot of planning, they are worth it in the long run. Retreat planning requires managing a lot of details and forming a committee to spread out the work load makes it much easier.
Begin by coordinating 3 core elements of your retreat: theme, speaker and location.
You can pick a theme and then find a speaker(s) who can teach within that theme. Or you can start with the particular teacher and work with her to develop a theme that fits the needs of your group.
When picking a theme, brainstorm with your committee for ideas that women who are likely to attend need or want to hear. To spark an idea for a theme, consider basic questions like:
- What challenges is our group currently facing (marriage, parenting, graduating, singleness, service, evangelism, outreach, etc)?
- Is your group primarily in need of challenge? Or refreshment? Or fellowship?
- What themes have your Sunday sermons been focusing on and how can you compliment them?
- Do you want an in-depth look at one issue? Or an overview of a bigger issue?
- Is there a book everyone is reading or an issue your community is facing?
Determine whether to hire a speaker or use someone from within your local church. Consider your budget and your local teacher’s existing workload.
If you choose to hire a speaker, your regional denominational office can probably makes some suggestions. Women’s ministry directors at other local churches in your area may also be able to offer suggestions.
If you’re holding your retreat at a Christian camp or conference center, they sometimes also have lists of possible speakers.
Once you have some names, do your homework. Listen to some Mp3s from that speaker, read her book if she has one and talk to her on the phone or face to face if possible. You want to know what she is likely to say and whether she’s a good match for your group and theme. Note: 7 things to consider when you invite a speaker.
The challenge is finding a location that is affordable, within easy travel distance and offers accommodations suitable for your group. Older women tend to prefer resort or hotel like settings while younger women may be fine with bunk beds and dormitories. A location that offers both may be ideal. Make sure it can handle the number of women you expect plus food needs and special diets.
One you have a speaker and location, that usually determines the date.
With your date, location and speaker in place, the next big issue is cost. You’ll need to determine how much to charge based on speaker fees, room rates, food, recreations costs, scholarship needs and any thank you gifts for your team. Consider basic questions:
- Will the church be providing any support?
- Will you be organizing fundraisers throughout the year?
- Will the women pay the total costs themselves?
- How many scholarships can you offer?
If the church can support the early retreats, you can become “self-sustaining” by building up a reserve. The reserve from the previous years pays the upfront costs (lodging down payment, speaker travel fees, publicity & printing, etc.). Then registration fees cover the remaining costs and replenishes the reserve for next year.
After the cost, speaker, theme, location and date, the next step is publicity. There are lots of ways to get the word out and you’ll probably know what has worked in your local church in the past:
- Announcements in the bulletin, email and social media,
- a sign-up table in the foyer,
- posters in the hallways and women’s bathrooms,
- announcements from the pulpit and at other women’s ministry events.
- Use the traditional methods and experiment with the news.
As the registrations start coming in the next step is planning the schedule. Having a clear idea of what you’d like to accomplish at the retreat can help you plan.
Here are several sample schedules. Adjust them for things you want to include and exclude. Remember to factor in transition time (especially if you have to change buildings) and registration time, both structured and non-structured fellowship time, and maybe time for individuals to be alone with God.
Beyond the basics, you may want to include something extra like:
- printed handouts, workbooks, binders or bookmarks that the women can take away
- a small favor or gift for participants or a “survival kit“
- snacks and beverages for fellowship time
- “awards” for games and icebreakers
- decorations that fit the theme
- rooster of participants so women can stay in touch with their new friends after the retreat
- suggestions to study to continue learning after the retreat
- an evaluation or feedback form
Enjoy your retreat!
Please email me and let me know how this worked for you or ways you changed and improved it.